人与人之间的沟通

怎么才会有好的沟通呢？

简单？ 家人和孩子的沟通是最难的一关 ，
为何？因为长辈们都以自己为重来和孩子沟通 。
所以每次家人和孩子容易吵架 ，意见不和 ，

家人和孩子应该变成 朋友似的 ，
不要以长辈的身份和孩子沟通 ，
这样的沟通 ，孩子是不会听你的话 ，
应该以朋友似的语气来和孩子沟通 ，

长辈和孩子可以转换为兄弟 ，姐妹
这样的沟通方式会变得很顺利 ，
因为他们觉得这样的聊天方式会比较容易开口

沟通时，不要开口闭口以自己为重点 ，
应该以孩子的角度为出发点 ，
这样的沟通方式最容易谈得来 。

以后我的孩子 ，我会告诉他们把我当成是朋友看待 ，
不必以长辈的身份来看待 ，
称呼也可以很随意 ，本名 ，匿名或是像朋友的称呼也可以
这样和孩子沟通不会有很大的问题啦。。。^^

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